Showing posts with label anti-Semitism. Show all posts
Showing posts with label anti-Semitism. Show all posts

Wednesday, October 2, 2019

Rosh Hashanah Morning Sermon: Double Down on Judaism



Welcome home!  I love the High Holy Days because it feels like a big family reunion.  I am heartened when I look out into the pews and see all of your beautiful smiling faces.  It is my favorite moment of the year!  Normally, I’d joke that the last time we had this many people in the building was last High Holy Days, but sadly, that is not the case this year.    It was just days after the shooting at the Tree of Life Synagogue that hundreds of us gathered on Solidarity Shabbat to mourn the loss of eleven precious souls. 

Our community was in a cloud, our world upended; there was real fear for our fellow Jews and our own congregation.  Pittsburgh was the first mass shooting at a synagogue in our nation’s history.  And sadly, it was not the last.  Since then, our Jewish community has endured a second shooting at the Poway Chabad Center.  The ADL[i] recorded a dramatic rise in anti-Semitic attacks over the last couple of years.  In 2018, there were 1,879 attacks in our country, a staggering 99% higher than 2015.

For 16 years, I have been privileged to preach on the High Holy Days.   Not once in 16 years have I spoken about anti-Semitism.  This Rosh Hashanah will be the first time.  What does this say about our country?  What does this say about the state of Judaism today?

For some of us, anti-Semitism is an old wound that continues to threaten our lives and our families.  Many in this room remember a time when we were prohibited from attending specific colleges or couldn’t buy a home in certain neighborhoods, including Roland Park, solely because we were Jewish.  For others of us, the rise of anti-Semitism seems to have come out of nowhere.  In either case, there is a new reality that has bubbled up to the surface. 

I am not here to fear monger.  I’m not here to scare you.  Yet, it is time to speak frankly and openly about our changing country; to ask the difficult questions and search our hearts for answers.

One of the major changes has been the rise of White Nationalism.  White Nationalism uses anti-Semitism as the fuel to power its anti-Black racism. Eric Ward, one of the foremost thinkers on anti-Semitism today lays this out in a recent article: “Skin in the Game: How Anti-Semitism Animates White Nationalism.”  As Ward shares: The successes of the Civil Rights Movement created a terrible problem for White Supremacist Ideology.  Jim Crow had been the de facto law of the land, yet a Black led Social Movement toppled the political order.   As Ward writes, the White Supremacists were thinking: “How could a race of political inferiors have unseated this power structure through organizing alone? … Some secret cabal, some mythological power, must be manipulating the social order behind the scenes.  This diabolical evil must control television, banking, entertainment, education, and even Washington, D.C…. What is this archnemesis of the White race…?  It is, of course the Jews?” [ii]

White Nationalism differs from White Supremacy because it wants to create a Whites Only Nation with anti-Semitism at its core.  If we care about combatting racism, the mistreatment of immigrants, islamophobia, misogyny, homophobia, and transphobia, if we care about a just world for all, then we must end the fuel of White Nationalism, and work tirelessly to end anti-Semitism. 

For anti-Semitism occurs most prevalently in a binary world and plays out best when White Nationalists feel empowered and when democratic systems such as the judiciary and free press are weakened and unable to fight back.  When the President of the United States says that “There were good people on both sides” after the Unite the Right Rally in Charlottesville, we speak up.  When our Jewish loyalty is questioned, we speak up.  When anti-Semitic tropes are heard on the right, the left, or the center, we speak up.  Just as we fight to protect our neighbors and the democratic institutions that are the bedrock of our country, so too must we fight to protect ourselves

So, what should we do?  What should be our personal and also our communal response to anti-Semitism?  Bari Weiss Op-Ed Staff Editor and Writer at the New York Times believes that the Jewish people have had two responses throughout our history, I’d like to call them: “Accommodation” and “Separation.”

With Accommodation, if we only show that we are perfect Greeks, Spaniards, or Germans than that country will love us.  If we wish to become more and more American and shed our Jewish identity, than why even be here?  Let’s close up shop and go home.

Separation is the opposite, it believes that lasting security for the Jews comes when we turn inward.  From the Maccabees to the Bar Kochba Revolt to Ultra-Orthodoxy, we can only be saved if we rely on our Jewish leaders and our Jewish movements.  Separation often believes that building ever greater walls and circling the wagons will protect us and our own.

There is a third approach, as Bari Weiss writes, "In these trying times, our best strategy is to build, without shame, a Judaism and a Jewish people and a Jewish state that are not only safe and resilient but also generative, humane, joyful and life-affirming.  A Judaism capable of lighting a fire in every Jewish soul - and in the souls of everyone who throws in his or her lot with ours." [iii]

When our loyalty is questioned, when we fear the rising tide of anti-Semitism, when we are scared about our future, we double down on Judaism.  We double down on our Jewish community; we double down on our Jewish values; we double down on our Jewish commitments, to each other and to the world around us.

How do we double down on Judaism?  We Live Proudly as Jews
Judaism is lived outwardly, through dress, action, and expression.  But, throughout our history, from the Greeks to the Conversos to the modern day, many have been scared to live openly as a Jew.

Our exemplar is Esther, the Persian Queen, and hero of the Purim Story.  Esther hid her Jewish identity from King Ahasuerus and from the entire nation.  At the opportune moment, when things were dire for the Jewish people, Esther “came out of the closet as a Jew,” saved her people, and lived her Judaism proudly. 

Like Esther, we often feel scared.  Is it safe to go to synagogue?  Should we tell the stranger that we are Jewish?  Do we speak up when we hear an anti-Semitic joke?  Esther reminds us that there is no better way to combat anti-Semitism than by sharing why Judaism matters to us.  When we express our Judaism outside our homes and synagogues, we can change hearts and minds, including our own.

Yet, for students on college campuses and for those of us who are more liberal in our thinking, it can often be a little more challenging.  With the rise of intersectionality, Jews and Israel are often seen as colonizers.  When we are working on issues such as racism, LGBTQ rights, or Immigration, must we choose between Social Justice and Israel?  Can’t we do both?

It’s not easy, but we must share our entire selves, including our Jewish selves.  We look to our tradition and the prophets of old for comfort and guidance.  We reach out to our allies and our neighbors to listen, to learn, and to teach.  We speak up when we see anti-Semitism or any acts of hatred.  For is it not better to work together when we can, than to not be part of the conversation at all?

How do we double down on Judaism? 
We Celebrate Our Jewish Tradition

We aren’t the first generation to discover the challenges of anti-Semitism.  The prior generations created rituals to provide us with strength during tough times.  Playing dreidel at Hanukkah (served as a ploy to study Torah); eating Matzah during Passover (reminds us of our suffering and the suffering of others); affixing a mezuzah on our door (proclaims that this is a Jewish home).

And then there’s the story told by the late Rabbi Hugo Gryn.  Many years before becoming a rabbi, young Hugo lived through the Holocaust and was a child of Auschwitz.  One year during his time in the Camps, Hanukkah arrived.  His father created a small menorah and used their margarine rations as the oil to light the wicks.  Young Hugo protested to his father that this was a foolish act.  Every ounce of food was needed in order for them to survive.  How could they waste this precious resource in order to light the Menorah for Hanukkah?
 
Rabbi Gryn never forgot the words his father shared with him that day.  “My child, we know that you can live three days without water.  You can live three weeks without food.  But you cannot live three minutes without hope.”[iv]  Our Jewish tradition is filled with rituals, holiday celebrations, prayers, and foods.  Each ritual provides us with the strength and more importantly the hope we need to carry on day after day. 

How do we double down on Judaism? 
We Live Our Jewish Values
For our Judaism is based upon the values of treating each other with respect, compassion, and dignity.  In the Babylonian Talmud, we are taught that if a non-Jew is interested in becoming a member of our community, we are required to ask them these difficult questions: “Why do you want to become a Jew?  Do you not know that Jewish people at the present time are persecuted and oppressed, despised, harassed, and overcome by affliction?”  If the reply is: “I know and yet I am unworthy,” than we open our doors and we teach some minor and major commandments.  The Talmud then asks: What commandments should we teach?  The mitzvah of gleanings, the forgotten sheaf, the corner, and the poor persons’ tithe.”[v]

When someone wishes to become a Jew-by-choice, what do we do?  We welcome with open arms and first teach the ethical commandments of providing food for the poor, as well as the mitzvot centered on justice and compassion.

Take that a step further… when we are the ones feeling oppression and fear, we double down on our Jewish values, the values of treating all in our world with dignity and respect.  As individuals and as a congregation, our Jewish values provide us with the strength to go out into the world and repair the shards of brokenness.

How do we double down on Judaism?  We Join Together.
It can be lonely to be a Jew.  Especially when many of us don’t live in the Jewish neighborhood or when some of us don’t have Jewish family nearby.  Our rabbis teach us that we need 10 people for a minyan, 10 people in order to pray.  Why?  Because to be a Jew means to be part of community.

I felt this most prevalently during the hours prior to Solidarity Shabbat, just days after the Tree of Life Shooting.  I had a pit in my stomach and one question on my mind: “Do we open up the wall at the back of the sanctuary?”  I was fixated on the wall.  It seems silly now, but I was terrified that no one would show up, that they’d be too scared or wouldn’t care to be with us that evening.

Forty-five minutes prior to the service our parking lot was already full and dozens of people were flooding into the synagogue.  I realized that I didn’t recognize many of the faces.  These were neighbors, our Christian, Muslim, Buddhist, Jewish, and Secular neighbors.  With tears in my eyes, I nodded to Johnny, our Custodian, and the wall was open, the chairs placed.  We ran out of prayer books that evening; it was standing room only, more people than at the High Holy Days

Our then President, Melissa Zieve, looked at me and said, “I feel safer with our doors open.”
 
We doubled down on Judaism that night.  We doubled down on being proudly and unapologetically Jewish.  We doubled down on celebrating, singing, praying, and eating the most delicious veggie potluck ever to feed 300.  We doubled down on our Jewish values by opening our doors to our neighbors.  We doubled down by joining together, hundreds of us gathered in our sanctuary and social hall.

We were safer that night because we doubled down on Judaism.  We will fight anti-Semitism and will make our community stronger and our world safer when we double down on Judaism.


[iv] Adapted from a retelling by Rabbi David Wolpe, “This is the True Lesson of Hanukkah” – Time Magazine, December 6, 2015
[v] Babylonian Talmud, Yevamot 47a (my own translation/interpretation)

Saturday, November 3, 2018

Solidarity Shabbat: Remembering the Victims of Tree of Life Synagogue



This has been a tough week.  I’ve personally been in a cloud from the moment my Shabbat joy was shattered last Saturday.  I’ve been filled with utter sadness at the loss of precious life at the Tree of Life Synagogue.  I’ve been filled with fear.    Fear for myself.  Fear for the Jewish Community.  Fear for the future of our country.

I know that I am not alone.  The Jew’s heart is breaking.  All in our wider community are hurting.  All of us are in grief, in mourning.  That is why we are here together.

Each week, we gather to read a section of the Torah, the five books of Moses.  We began a few weeks ago with the very beginning of Genesis.  And now, we are in the midst of the story of Abraham and Sarah.  It completely confounds me that no matter what is happening in our lives, no matter what is happening in our world, the week’s Torah portion seems to fit perfectly to our communal mood and mindset.  This week is no exception.

Our Torah portion, Chayei Sarah, begins with death and mourning.  Sarah dies suddenly, and Abraham mourns the loss of his beloved wife.  The Torah teaches that Abraham grieves for Sarah in two distinct ways: he wails, and he remembers her.

We are in the midst of shiva, the seven days of initial mourning, for the eleven souls of Pittsburgh.  We’ve cried.  We’ve grieved.  We’ve wailed.  We Jews also mourn by sharing stories of the dead.  Abraham remembered Sarah by reflecting upon her very essence.  We too need to remember the dead: what they believed, what propelled them in life, and what mattered most in their world.  You may have heard their stories, but they bear repeating.

Joyce Feinberg was a research specialist at the University of Pittsburgh Learning Research and Development Center for more than 25 years.  She was an elegant and warm person who was enormously caring with a huge personality.

Richard Gottfried was a dentist who along with his wife shared a dental practice.  Richard and his wife were fixtures in the community and they volunteered together at the Catholic Charities Dental Clinic.  He was an avid runner who had recently been attending services at Tree of Life Synagogue.

Rose Mallinger was spry, vibrant, and full of life.  At 97 years old, she was the quintessential bubbe (Jewish grandmother) where family was everything.  She was mother of three, grandmother to five, great-grandmother to one.  Rose attended services every Saturday, sitting next to her sister in synagogue.  She was always quick with a friendly greeting, a hug, and a smile.

Jerry Rabinowitz was a primary care physician.  During the early days of HIV treatment when stigma was high, Jerry was known to hold patients’ hands without gloves and to embrace them.  He was known for wearing bow ties to help make people laugh.  Jerry escaped the initial assault on Saturday. and turned around and ran inside to see if anyone was hurt or needed a doctor.

Cecil and David Rosenthal – were two incredible brothers.  Cecil was a gentle giant who greeted everyone with a smile and a strong handshake.  He had a youthful exuberance and a laugh that was infectious.  He had developmental challenges and was a beloved member of the community.  David was quieter, but no less beloved.  He was a greeter, standing in front of the sanctuary handing out prayer books.  The brothers were inseparable.

Bernice and Sylvan Simon were married at the Tree of Life Congregation more than 60 years ago.  A neighbor shared that they were the sweetest people you could have imagined.  They were always giving back to people, they always stepped up, and were kind and generous. 
  
Daniel Stein was a simple man who didn’t require much.  He had a dry sense of humor and was a great guy.  He was a former president of the New Light Congregation and is remembered for his kindness.

Melvin Wax was known as Mel to everyone.  His greatest passion besides the Pittsburgh Penguins was his grandson.  Mel was generous and a sweet man who would help anyone.  At almost 88 years old, he’d always park his car a few streets away from the synagogue to leave closer spaces to those who needed them.

Irving Younger greeted each member with a big smile and a handshake.  He liked to make sure that everyone knew what page they were on in the prayer book.  He went to synagogue every day, he never missed a day.  He felt a true responsibility and a role to serve the community.

These eleven precious souls are us.  They are young and old.  They are singles, couples, siblings, and friends.  They are Jews, interfaith couples, Jews-by-choice, those with disabilities; the rainbow of our Jewish community.  They are the greeters, the Torah readers, the prayer leaders, and the board members.  They are the regulars and those who come every once and a while. They are us.

As I read their stories this past Monday, I began to cry.  I know the Rose Mallingers, the Jerry Rabinowitz’s, the Cecil and David Rosenthal’s.  I know the Bernice and Sylvan Simon’s and the Joyce Feinberg’s.  Pittsburgh is us.  Squirrel Hill is us.  We are Squirrel Hill.  I cried because we are one big family.  We lost precious lives.  We are all in this together.

As we mourn, I’m cognizant that our shiva, our initial seven days of mourning, is almost complete.  As one rabbinic colleague shared: “Today we mourn, tomorrow we act.”  What happens tomorrow?  Where do we go from here?

I find my answer by going back to the Torah.  Halfway through our portion, we meet Rebecca, the matriarch, for the first time.  Rebecca sits by her town’s well.  When Eliezer, servant of Abraham, appears, she welcomes him with open arms.  She provides him with water and also draws water for Eliezer’s many camels.

Rebecca’s quintessential feature is kindness.  She welcomes Eliezer, a stranger, into her home.  She goes out of her way to help him through his troubles.  It might seem like a small thing to provide someone with a glass of water but remember she didn’t have a tap or a sink!  The well was far away.  And camels after a long hot journey drink much water.  This was a big moment and a lot of hard work.  Rebecca lives her every moment with kindness and with a welcoming personality.

There is real fear in our community.  There is so much hatred and anger in the world.  We wish to guard ourselves by building a fortress around our community.  There is an urgency to protect ourselves with ever greater walls, doors, guards, and guns.  After this attack, the trauma, pushes us to look inward, to circle the wagons, to protect our own.

Now, don’t get me wrong.  We must keep our community safe.  With our President, Melissa Zieve’s leadership, we have already begun conversations about security and safety.  New protocols and new procedures have been implemented and will be implemented to make our community secure in the days ahead.

Yet, it’s not just safety procedures, it’s also outlook and prospective.  Do we look inward?  Do we close the door?  Or do we look outside our walls?  As a community, Bolton Street Synagogue has always stood for warmth, welcoming, and community.  Our new tagline is: “Doors Wide Open.”  Our identity is about opening ourselves up to the broader Jewish and non-Jewish community.

It’s more than us, it’s also the lives who were lost in Pittsburgh.  I shared their stories because each person whose life was lost, lived his or her days with kindness and compassion.  They focused their days living life with: generosity, kindness, caring, giving, warmth, laughter, smiles, and love.  As Rebecca’s essence was kindness and a welcoming personality, so too did the eleven who died at Tree of Life Synagogue.  We can’t put up barriers.  We can’t turn in the wagons.  We Jews need to live our lives with kindness in our hearts and with our doors open to the world.

Our Torah portion begins with mourning.  Abraham grieves with wailing and remembrance for his beloved wife Sarah.  But, our Torah portion ends in an entirely different light.  It ends with comfort.  Isaac, the son of Sarah, also grieves.  He finds comfort in his new wife Rebecca.  We learn in the Torah that: “Isaac loved Rebecca and finds comfort after his mother’s death.”

Isaac finds comfort not through vengeance and anger, not through rage and resentment, but through kindness, love, and togetherness.  It’s through relationship and friendship, that Isaac finds peace.

Even more powerfully, our Torah portion ends with the burial of Abraham.  We learn that Isaac and Ishmael, Abraham’s two sons, come together to bury their father.  Jewish tradition teaches that Ishmael is the patriarch of the Arabs and Islam.  How powerful that two brothers, of two different religious traditions, come together, to bury their father.  To comfort each other.  To support each other.

Tonight, I’m overwhelmed at the number of non-Jewish friends, family members, and allies who are here to support us.  In addition, we have a dozen members of the clergy: pastors, reverends, priests, and ministers, who are here with us in solidarity.  We know that we as a Jewish community are not here alone.  There are so many of you, who have our back.  You are here to comfort us, support us, and be our friend.  There is fear for the future, but there is also great optimism that together we can make a difference.  Together we can help change this world for the better. 

I firmly believe we do that by getting to know each other better, by building deeper relationships across religion, ethnicity, race, and community.  That’s why we invited you to be here with us tonight.  Don’t just leave after the service and never see us again.  Let this be the moment to renew our relationship with each other.  As Rebecca opened her home to Eliezer, we too open our home to you.  After the service, lets join together to talk, to get to know each other, and to break bread together.  Let this moment of sadness and grieving, lead us to comfort, to friendship, and to peace.

Wednesday, August 16, 2017

Thoughts About Charlottesville


For millennia, Jewish tradition has taught of the dangers of hatred and violence.   The rabbis explained clearly that the Second Temple in Jerusalem was destroyed because of baseless hatred.   We learn that when one group hates another without cause, it can lead to the destruction of societal cohesion. 

In recent days, we’ve watched the breakdown of our own society.  Who would think that the actions perpetuated by white supremacists in Charlottesville could occur in the year 2017?  We watched in horror as Neo-Nazis and Fear Mongers marched openly carrying torches and machine guns.  We heard the news about the young woman murdered in a terrorist attack and read the accounts of those in the local Jewish community who feared for their safety.  Racism, bigotry, and anti-Semitism are still very much alive in our day.  Like the rabbis of old, we cannot stand idly by as hatred and violence occurs in our midst.  We must join together with the broader community to seek out justice and love.

The Reform Movement and the Religious Action Center put out statements over the last few days about the terrible violence that occurred this weekend.  I urge you to read more here and here   And a very brave synagogue president of theCharlottesville synagogue shared his thoughts about how his community dealt with the devastation.

In a few weeks many will gather in Washington, DC for the 1,000 Minister March on Washington.  I alongside a few from Bolton Street Synagogue will be travelling down to Washington to join together with the Jewish community and our interfaith allies (it’s not just for rabbis!). To learn more and to register ReligiousAction Center.

Join the Reform Movement in sharing photos on social media with the hashtag #BeTheLightForJustice.  It might be a small act, but it does have the potential to ease our pain.  Please share a picture of yourself holding a candle to help spread the light.

Finally, please consider to make a donation of tzedakah.  There are a plethora of Jewish organizations including the Religious Action Center, the ADL, T’ruah, or others who work deeply with the Interfaith Community to combat racism, hatred, and anti-Semitism.  Our donations can help begin to build a world of wholeness and peace.

Soon Elul will be upon us.  The month prior to the High Holy Days begins the process of looking inwards and seeking the change of behavior we wish for ourselves in the year ahead.  May these days of Elul help us and our country begin to turn towards t’shuvah, towards renewal and transformative change.

L’shalom,

Rabbi Andy Gordon