Monday, December 28, 2015

Lessons Learned in 2015



When the clock hits midnight in a few days, the whole world will celebrate the arrival of a new year.  New Year’s Day is not considered to be a Jewish holiday (we have our own New Year, Rosh Hashanah in early autumn), however, January 1st is a big marker of time!  It serves as a reminder to stop and think about where we are at this moment both as individuals and a society.   In light of this calendar change, I’d like to reflect upon the lessons that I personally learned in 2015 and my hopes for the future.

Stand up for what you believe

Earlier this summer, I received multiple invitations from Reform Rabbis to join “America’s Journey for Justice” a forty day march from Selma, Alabama to Washington, DC coordinated by the NAACP.  This march highlighted the deep racism and income inequality that pervades our society.  After hearing about the march, I thought about whether I had the time or the inclination to travel down to rural Georgia.  Luckily, I made the right decision and stood alongside people of all ages, races, and religions, to march for justice.  The lesson I learned is that talk can be cheap.  We must stand up for what we believe and act in order to better our world.

Support Our Friends

Just a few weeks ago, our society was rocked by the vicious terrorist attacks in Paris, France and San Bernardino, California.   Certain politicians and the media began to spew hatred about Muslims.  Our leaders began to talk about closing the US border to Syrian refugees, while others lambasted the Muslim community saying that many were terrorists.  Just days after the attack in Paris, I was contacted by my friends from the Islamic Center of Long Island to join with them to condemn ISIS and to state publicly that moderates of all religions care about human life.  I was proud to join them and be one of the few Jewish representatives.  When our friends need our support and our help, it is our obligation to stand by them and speak out against hatred and fear.

Change Does Happen



It can be hard to be an optimist in today’s world.  It seems that our country is becoming even more polarized and that politicians utter whatever is in their hearts without thinking about the ramifications of their words.  Terror and fear pervade our world and too many still are affected by the economic collapse.  It sometimes feels that we are moving backwards instead of forwards.  However, this June, we celebrated a major victory: Gay Marriage became the law of our land.  Millions of same-sex couples, their friends and families, were able to celebrate as their relationships were now legally recognized.  Change does happen!  It might be slower than we like and there might be many downs before there are ups, but change does happen!  It’s a tough road ahead, but when we support our friends and act for justice, our world can become a more peaceful and transformative society.  May we continue to do our part in 2016 to bring Tikkun Olam, healing to our world. 

Wednesday, December 2, 2015

8 Nights of Giving




I love Chanukah!  It’s a time of true joy and celebration.  What’s better than lighting the candles, eating delicious latkes, or opening a present!  But… in recent years, I’ve noticed a change in how Chanukah is celebrated.  Whether it’s American materialism or the close proximity to Christmas, it seems that the focus of Chanukah is the gifts!  The conversation around the Chanukah table is often about the latest electronics, the best toys, or the hottest clothes.  Now, don’t get me wrong, Jewish tradition has never frowned upon giving gifts.  For hundreds of years, Jewish children received a dreidel, chocolate coins, and even some gelt (money!) during Chanukah.  These gifts were small tokens from a loving parent or grandparent during this joyous holiday.  However, the money given was often used as a way to teach children about the mitzvah of tzedakah (giving charity to the poor).   That’s why Temple Sinai of Roslyn has decided to transform our celebration of Chanukah.  We are inviting Jews in Roslyn, across Long Island, and around the world to give back to our community and bring light to the world.  Our Chanukah celebration this year is called “8 Nights of Giving!”  During each night of Chanukah, we’re hoping that each of us can give back to our broader community by donating to a local charity, dropping off a donation, or doing a hands-on-project!  Check out 8nightsofgiving and follow us at #8nightsofgiving.  May our acts of loving kindness bring light and joy to the world around us!