Sunday, September 24, 2017

Rosh Hashanah Sermon: Open Doors, Open Hands, Open Hearts



It was the Tiki Torches.  Those Tiki Torches signified that everything had changed.  The news coming out of Charlottesville was horrific.  The violence, the bigotry, the brazenness of the protesters was deeply troubling.  I couldn’t believe that this was America in 2017.  In the past, the protesters would have worn hoods; they would have gathered in the darkness of night.  Here they were, marching proudly in the midday sun, yelling, “Blood and Soil,” “Jews will not replace us.”  The Tiki torches looked almost medieval; a nod to the past, to the Third Reich and to “Pitchforks and Torches” – vehicles used to scare us and put us in our place.

Charlottesville shook me to the core.[i]  There always was and will always be bigotry.  Anti-Semitism, racism, hatred of all kind, has been a part of our country’s dark history since our very founding.  Yet, this moment just feels different.  This year just feels different. 

So let us be unequivocal.  We firmly deplore these and any acts of anti-Semitism, Islamophobia, racism, or bigotry.  We stand firmly with our interfaith allies.  We will always speak out against hatred of any kind.  We deplore all who were ambiguous in their condemnation of these acts.  There is right and there is wrong.  We stand together and when there is no moral voice, we will be that moral voice.

Yet, I keep coming back to the Tiki Torches.  Last night, I began these High Holy Days with a story of how each of us must be a light.  We need you to light up a corner of our synagogue and a corner of our world.  The Tiki Torches were used to bring light.  They were there to scare us, frighten us, shock us.  We will not be scared.  We will not be frightened.  Instead, I urge us to reclaim the torch, to reclaim the light.[ii]  We will transform fear into hope.  We will transform hatred into love.

The bigots and the White Supremacists entire wish is to extinguish Judaism; to eradicate our proud religion.  And our response will be: to create a proud and vibrant Jewish future.  Today, I’d like to share with you my vision for the future of Bolton Street Synagogue.  How will we transform our synagogue.  How will we journey forward together.  How will we build upon our past and create a proud and vibrant community.

Open Doors
Long ago, there was a question about why Saul, than an ordinary man, merited the great honor of being named King of Israel.  In a wonderful midrash,[iii] a parable, the rabbis share that Saul was chosen as King of Israel because of the merit of his grandfather, a man known as Ner (meaning lamp).  What did Saul’s grandfather, Ner, do?  Ner lit lamps for the public.  There were always dark alleyways between people’s homes and the Beit Midrash, the House of Study.  In the darkness of night, without a torch guiding the way, many didn’t come to the synagogue to study, pray, or gather together.  It was too frightening and there were too many barriers to venture out into the darkness of the night.  Ner lit lamps to banish darkness.  The torches allowed all to be together.

This leads us to the first aspect of community, which I’d like to call: Open Doors.  Bolton Street has always been a community that is known for its openness.  It doesn’t matter our age, our sexuality, our skin color, our background, how we define family, or even our religion.  All are welcome to enter these doors. 

Yet, we know that we can always do better.  Open Doors means everyone feels welcome.  What about the new guest that fails to be welcomed?  What about the person who sits alone waiting for an invitation?  What about the visible and invisible barriers that prevents those from joining us, engaging fully in Jewish life?  Open Doors means we do our best to knock down all obstacles that drive us apart and create new pathways to bring us together.

Open Hands
A man[iv] was travelling from place to place when he saw a castle aglow in flames.  The man said, “Is it possible that this castle lacks a person to look after it?  Who will put out the fire?”  The owner of the building looked out and said, “I am the owner of the castle.”  Similarly, Abraham, looked out at the world and said, “Is it possible that this castle, our world, has no one to look after it?”  And God said, “I am the Master of the Universe, and he replied to Abraham, “Lech Lecha… Go forth…”

In this Midrash, a man sees a castle ablaze and searches for the owner, in order to extinguish the fire.  And Abraham, the first Jew, looks out at the world on fire and asks, “Who is responsible for all of this?”  And God answers: “From your question, I know that you are the one!  Lech Lecha, go forth, for it is now your responsibility to care for my world.”

That is the essence of what it means to be a Jew, of what it means to be a part of the Jewish community.  It’s what I’d like to call Open Hands.  Our responsibility is to reach out to those in need.  Whether we call this Tikkun Olam (Healing of the World), Tzedakah (Charity), Social Action, or Gemilut Chasadim (Acts of Loving Kindness), our first responsibility is to care for and heal the world.

The man looked out and saw a palace on fire.  He didn’t wait until his house was burning down in order to act.  No, he first reaches out to help those in distress.  That is our foremost responsibility as a synagogue community.  We are guided by the Jewish past.  We are reminded that we were slaves in Egypt; that we encountered hostility and bigotry; that we were the downtrodden, the stranger, and the less than human.  Yet, we don’t turn our backs to the world.  We reach across faith lines to assist all who are in need.  Our past guides us; as the prophets remind us, we must open our hands to all who struggle, all who are challenged, here and everywhere.

Open Hearts
Almost seventy years ago, the German and Austrian Jewish Community was devastated during Kristallnacht, the night of broken glass.  On that fateful evening, thousands of synagogues, Jewish businesses, and homes were destroyed!  Arsonists burned down buildings, while windows were broken.  Shards of glass were everywhere.  The Jewish community laid in ruin just as the Holocaust was about to begin.

One young man, Walter Schwarz, lived through this horrible ordeal.  In the aftermath of Kristallnacht, Walter swore that if he survived, he would one day learn to rebuild the shards of glass into something beautiful.  What was broken, would one day become whole.

Walter survived and Baltimore became his new home.  He became a founding member of our congregation and fulfilled his long promised vow.  Well into his 70’s, Walter learned how to make stained glass windows at the JCC; he had never worked with stained glass before.  He took pieces of broken glass and created the breathtaking stained glass window that was located in Bolton Hill and now sits prominently in our lobby.  The window serves as a reminder of where we came from and a symbol of our past.  A Jewish star remembers the 6 million while the 10 commandments proudly recognizes the essence of who we are as a Jewish community.  As sunlight shines forth, a spectrum of colors shines down upon our lobby.




The stained glass window and Walter’s story symbolizes the third aspect of community: Open Hearts.  Walter took something which was broken and helped build something new and vibrant.  As we begin the next chapter of Bolton Street Synagogue, what do we wish to build, together?  How will we maintain our progressive Jewish values, yet not lose our vibrant Jewish past?  How will we keep tradition alive, but also change with the times?  How will we define “Jewish community” when many of our members and loved ones aren’t Jewish?  Open Hearts mean that we open ourselves to the diversity that is our community, yet continue to delve down the path of modernity and tradition.

Another aspect of Open Hearts means strengthening our relationship with each other.  Jewish community has always been built upon a brit, a covenant.  A brit means that we have responsibility for each other.  That we look out for each other, embrace each other, care for each other.  Part of creating a brit, a covenant with one another, means opening our hearts to each other’s strengths, but also each other’s weaknesses.  Open Hearts means being forgiving and empathetic.  We must recognize that all of us make mistakes, none of us is perfect.  Let us open our hearts to our entire persona and to our entire community.

As a rabbi, I’ve been blessed to serve many communities, from the tiny chavurah to the largest synagogue.  I love being a rabbi.  I love leading services, teaching Torah, guiding young and old, leading my community.  Yet, I’ve always searched for something more; yearned for a community that truly felt like home.  This past winter, when Brian, Caleb, and I visited Bolton Street for the first time, we knew we were home.  We felt warmth and love permeating everywhere.  We loved the dedication to tradition and the willingness to think differently.  We saw the stewards of the past and the builders of the future.  Brian and I wished to find a community that we’d join even if I wasn’t the rabbi; a place where Caleb would grow up and feel loved and supported.  We found it, here, at Bolton Street.

As your rabbi, I promise to be by your side, to guide you, and nourish your souls.  I promise to teach, but also to learn; to lead, but also to listen.  I promise that I’ll push us forward, but always remember our past.  I will be there for you, but I need you to be there for me too.  I need you to support me and guide me on this new endeavor, together.

On the start of this New Year, I ask you again to roll up your sleeves.  I ask you: come to services, attend a class, volunteer around the synagogue, give back to the community.  I ask you: share your passion, give of yourself, meet me, and join with old faces and meet new faces too.  In this New Year, we will respond to hatred and violence by building upon our proud past and creating a vibrant Jewish future.  May we open our doors, open our hands, and open our hearts.  Together, we will transform our world, transform our synagogue, and most importantly transform our lives.  Ken Yehi Ratzon, May it be so.  Amen v’Amen.



[i] Much appreciation to the Central Conference of American Rabbis (CCAR) for its webinar “Post Charlottesville from the Pulpit.”  Thank you to Rabbi Amy Schwartzman, Rabbi Mari Chernow, and Rabbi David Stern for their thoughts and reflections as I prepared for this sermon.
[ii] Gratitude to Rabbi Adam Allenberg for his commentary and thoughts about Charlottesville in the HUC-JIR Podcast “Bully Pulpit” collegecommons.huc.edu/bully_pulpit/charlottesville_huc/
[iii] Leviticus Rabbah 9:2
[iv] Genesis Rabbah 39:1.  Many thanks to Rabbi Dvora Weisberg for her thoughts in the HUC-JIR Podcast “Bully Pulpit.”

Erev Rosh Hashanah Sermon: A Hundred Lights Shining in the Darkness



I've always loved the High Holy Days.  As a kid, when the rabbi began his sermon, my friends would go outside to play in the coatroom or run down the hallway.  I’d be inside the sanctuary listening intently to the rabbi's words (or at least making a wager with my sister on how long the rabbi would talk)!  I loved singing Avinu Malkenu and hearing the blast of the shofar.  The High Holy Days were always a homecoming.  There’d be lots of kibitzing and showing off the latest outfit, but it was truly about being together, connecting with friends and family after a long summer.

As we welcome the New Year 5778, I’m thrilled to welcome you back home!  As you probably know, this is my first High Holy Days at Bolton Street Synagogue!.  From the first time I visited Bolton Street back in December, I’ve had this date circled on my calendar.  I couldn’t wait to lead Erev Rosh Hashanah service outdoors in the meadow; and here we are!  Whether you are a first time visitor or a long time member, welcome home!

At my first service, back in early July, I shared a little bit about myself and my story.  I told you about my rabbi, Rabbi Garsek, who when I was only ten years old, saw something special in me.  As we studied together in my fifth grade classroom, Rabbi Garsek looked into my eyes and said, “Andy, you’ll be a great rabbi one day.”  I’m not sure what he saw in me.  I wasn’t the loudest, the cleverest, or the most gifted speaker.  Yet, my rabbi saw something in me that I didn’t see in myself.  And his words changed my life. 

Rabbi Garsek was a special man.  It was his menschleicheit: his kindness and caring nature that drew me towards him.  It was his love of Judaism and his big heart that propelled me to follow in his footsteps.  He encouraged me to become the person I am today; to become the rabbi who stands before you.

Rabbi Garsek taught me many lessons, but one of the crucial lessons I took with me was the centrality of COMMUNITY in Jewish life.  He believed that Judaism not only encourages, but demands that we form relationship during the peak moments in time.  When we pray, we join together with at least ten people (a minyan).  When we learn, we study with at least one other study partner (a chevrutah).  When we celebrate holidays, at least three should join together at the holiday table.  Judaism believes in the power of community.  We can’t make change alone; our lives, our synagogue, our world can only be transformed when we are in relationship, together.   

My sermons during these High Holy Days will focus on that theme of COMMUNITY: on our commitment to each other, on the importance of individual responsibility, and on our relationship with those outside our walls.  Tonight, I’d like to share a story that illustrates my vision for our beloved Bolton Street Synagogue.  This story expresses my hope for our future and describes who I am as a rabbi.  So, sit back, take a deep breath, and enjoy one of my favorite stories!

Many[i]  centuries ago, in a faraway little village, deep in the mountains, lived a wealthy man.  This man was getting on in years and began to reflect upon his legacy.  He had succeeded beyond his wildest dreams in regards to business, wealth, and success, yet something was missing.  He wished to give back to the community that supported him throughout his life, but what would be the proper gift?  After spending months reflecting upon his dilemma, the man realized that his community lacked a proper synagogue.  He and his fellow Jews would gather in someone’s house to pray, but they didn’t have the resources to build a fitting home for God.

And so, he decided to construct a beautiful synagogue.  His planning would be in secret.  No one would know.  He hired craftsmen and craftswomen from far away to build his masterpiece.  The construction of the building took many years – much longer than he anticipated.

Finally, the building was complete.  The rabbi and the man decided that the new synagogue would officially open its doors on Erev Rosh Hashanah.  The village was abuzz with excitement for the first service in the new building.  At 5:00pm, on the eve of the Jewish New Year, the doors of the synagogue were opened for the first time.  Hundreds of men and women, children and babies, young and old, rushed into the sanctuary.  They were awed by its magnificence.  It was truly the most beautiful synagogue anyone had ever laid eyes upon.  The wood of the bima glistened like gold; the Ark doors gleamed like rubies; the eternal light sparkled like diamonds; the menorah, stained glass, and Torah, were truly the most splendid in the world.  The congregants oohed and awed at the beauty that surrounded them.

Slowly the sun began to set.  As the sky became darker, the hubbub began to die down.  The excitement and the energy that pervaded the building seemed to vanish in an instant.  Everyone looked around the building with puzzled looks upon their faces.  Finally, a brave little girl approached the man.  “Excuse me, sir, there’s something missing!”  “Something missing!  What do you mean?” said the man.  “There’s a beautiful ark, a menorah, and a Torah scroll.  What possibly could be missing?!”  The girl looked up and pointed to the ceiling, “The lamps!  The lamps are missing!  There’s absolutely no lights in here!”

“Ah, yes,” said the man with a big smile upon his face.  “If you look around the sanctuary, there are brackets that cover the walls.  These brackets will hold up different lamps, one lamp for each person.  Tonight, you all will receive a lamp.  Each time you are here, the area where you are seated will be lit and will be filled with light.  But, each time you are not here, that area will be dark.  Part of the synagogue will be darkened.  Your community is relying on each of you to be the light.”

Tonight, on this eve of Rosh Hashanah, I’d like to remind you that you possess a light.  Your light guides you.  Your light shines out in the darkness.  Your light provides warmth and comfort to your loved ones, and especially to our community.

As a rabbi, I too possess a light.  My light teaches our history and our past.  My light guides and supports our community.  My light leads us forward into future.  Yet, my light is just one candle flickering in the night.  One candle is not enough to banish the darkness.  It takes hundreds of lights, sparkling together, to create a beacon in the darkness.

My vision of our beloved Bolton Street Synagogue is a community that comes together, supports each other, cares for each other, and depends upon each other.  Our synagogue must be a covenantal community, where we recognize and act on the needs, passions, hardships, and dreams of those that surround us.  We must know each other and work together to change our lives and our world for the better.

We each possess a light, yet we use our light in different ways.  Perhaps, the spirituality of services connects you to the Holy One.  Perhaps, studying our ancient texts helps connect you to our Jewish past.  Perhaps, gathering together for a celebration helps connect you to one another. Perhaps, reaching out to those in need, helps connect you to our broader society.  Whatever the case, we need each of you to be the light in order to banish the darkness.  Your community is relying on you to be the light.

Many years ago, my rabbi saw something in me.  At the time, I might not have been the loudest or the cleverest, but I had my strengths: I was kind, I was compassionate, I cared about my community and I understood that it wasn’t about one person; it was about all of us working together. It was hundreds of candles, coming together, shining ever brightly.

On this eve of the New Year, I call upon each of us.  Don’t worry, I’m not asking you to become a rabbi!  No, I’m asking you to be YOU.  I look into your eyes and I say to each of you, “You are great!  You are special!  You are unique!”  We need you.  We need your passion, your energy, your time, and your dedication.  I ask you to be a light: to volunteer, to pray, to gather, to learn, to teach. 

As we join together in song, volunteers will pass out a small candle to each of you.  When you receive your candle, turn it on.  This candle is my gift to you.  May it serve as a reminder of all you have to give; may you bring light, goodness, kindness, and joy into the world.  Amen v’Amen.  Shana Tova!   



[i] This sermon is based upon a story entitled “The Nobleman’s Legacy.”  My story is adapted from many versions with a debt of gratitude to Rabbi Robin Nafshi for sharing this story with me.